We Should All Be Building People-First Communities in the Age of AI

I keep catching myself doing this thing lately: staring at an Instagram ad, listening to a podcast intro, scrolling past a post — and wondering, 'Wait, is this AI?' Turns out, I'm not alone. A survey by Getty Images states that 76% of people agree: ‘It’s getting to the point where I can’t tell if an image is real’. And it’s this simple sentiment of wondering whether something is real or not that raises an important question for us marketers and creators: How can we shift the narrative of doubt and start focusing on building trust instead?

I’ve been reflecting on this for a while now, asking myself what really makes me trust something online and I keep coming back to the same answer: connection. I trust something when it makes me feel connected.

So that’s when it clicked for me: we double down on what AI can’t replicate. We build connections. We build community. Real, human community. Because while technology can evolve, only people can scale trust. And in an age where so much feels synthetic, trust is about to become your most powerful asset.

If you’re curious about why I’m so passionate about this topic, it’s because community building has changed me. The first time I built a community was in 2021, and it began with 20 inaugural members that quickly grew to 140 founders. In less than a year, we evolved it into a full-fledged fellowship program, which continues today under the European EdTech Alliance. 

Thanks to this experience, I have some exciting news for small businesses and creators. You already have what it takes to build trust. According to an article published by WorldCom, micro- and nano-influencers are on the rise because the trust you build runs deeper. Brands are paying attention, and creators who prioritize connection over clout tend to have more engaged communities. And that kind of impact is the perfect testament of a deep, meaningful connection. Something that’s nurtured over time, not created overnight.

In this article, I’ll share why I believe building community can be your superpower right now — not just for marketing, but for building real trust and deep connections. I’ll dive deep into what makes communities such a long-lasting strategy, how to build and sustain one authentically, and even how AI can support (without replacing) the human touch that makes it all work.

Community as a strategy

Unlike marketing campaigns and content pieces that are often one-off and time-bound, a well-built community can evolve and live on by becoming part of your mission. That’s what makes it so powerful. But why does it truly stand the test of time?

Because community taps into something deeper than metrics: emotion and belonging. People want to be part of something meaningful. When you create a space where members feel engaged, supported, and seen, you’re not just building a following; you’re building trust.

That trust creates a bond, not just between members, but between your community and your brand. Over time, you earn a place in their minds and hearts as more than just a product or creator. You become the go-to resource not because you ran a flashy ad, but because you consistently showed up for them. You gave them value, connection, and a sense of belonging.

And when people feel good about being part of your community, they talk about it. They recommend you. They become your advocates. This kind of organic social proof and authority can’t be bought, it has to be built. That’s the true power of community. It’s a space others want to be part of. From a business perspective, it's hard for members not to fall in love with your brand, thanks to the positive experience your community offers.

When I built EdTech Female Founders back in 2021, we weren't thinking about AI at all (it wasn't really a thing yet for most marketers). But the community still thrived. It connected people, sparked ideas, helped increase brand awareness, pushed a great deal of content across social, but most importantly, it created a space others wanted to be part of. If this worked in a pre-AI world, I believe it can work even better now. In fact, I believe building community is more essential than ever. In a landscape transformed by AI, people crave real human connection, and the brands and creators that win will be those that can deliver spaces that unite.

Why community should matter to you (now more than ever)

When your audience sees the real people behind the product, behind the content, you’re not just selling something or posting something. You’re building and creating with them.

Often, your early followers know you. They’ve DM’d you. They’ve seen your behind-the-scenes stories and lessons. They know what you stand for. That creates a level of emotional equity that big brands struggle to earn.

While AI can generate thousands of words in seconds, it can’t generate trust, loyalty, or belonging. Those things are built through consistent, real interactions, and that’s something you can deliver. So, how can you get started?

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When everything feels artificial, authenticity becomes your pillar.

Start with real faces, real values, and a real purpose that your community can jump on board with, not just because it sounds good, but because it resonates.

Ask yourself: What’s something you are already doing that could bring people together? Or what’s something that’s missing that you should focus on?

• If you’re innovating in a specific niche, can you create a space for experts to swap ideas and insights?
• If your segment lacks diversity, can you build a platform to elevate the voices that often go unheard?
• If you're launching a product that reimagines how people live or work, can your community help others do the same?

Your community doesn’t need to be huge to matter or have an impact, but it does need to make sense. It needs to align naturally with your focus and you should also want to build it. Doing it just for marketing’s sake comes across as inauthentic, and that defeats the purpose. A strong community is real, offers value, and grows from genuine care and intention.

How to keep the spark alive: Nurturing your community long-term

Community is not a transaction, it’s a relationship, and relationships need care and consistency.

Think about how you can show up for your people. Are you giving them something they genuinely value? What’s the reason they should stay connected? You need to build one!

To keep that spark alive, you need to constantly give people something that ignites it! Here are a few ideas on how you can do just that:

• Offer exclusive value: Try and think of what free resources you could put together that your members would find interesting. This can be anything from thought leadership content, tutorials, beta access to product features or programs, webinars, and even behind-the-scenes content.
• Foster meaningful conversations: Build spaces where members can share their thoughts, network with each other, and feel seen. This could include a dedicated Q&A channel or a space for members to share their own experiences and insights with each other. If you notice this channel going quiet, take the initiative to start a conversation and keep the momentum alive.
• Create regular touchpoints: Diversify where you get your community engaged. You can do this by expanding to meetups (virtual is great too!), sending them newsletters with community updates, or those awesome resources you’ve created just for them. Try to keep things fresh and meet your members where they like to be.

The more consistently you show up with real value, the more trust you build. That’s what can transform passive followers into loyal advocates, the kind who root for you even when you’re not in the room.

It might sound like a lot, because it is. No one said building a community is easy. But hey, we’re in the age of AI, remember?

Integrating AI without losing the human touch

You might be surprised by this section, but I truly believe AI can play a big role in helping us scale, even in community building. What matters is how we use it.

AI should support your community-building efforts, not replace the soul of it. Think of it as aid, not the drive. If you’re building something that matters, you shouldn’t burn out trying to do everything yourself. But you also shouldn’t lose the warmth that made people care in the first place.

Here’s how to strike that balance:

• Use AI to research your ICP (Ideal Community Persona). Let AI handle the heavy lifting when it comes to understanding who your potential people are and what they care about (at least in the early stages when you don’t have a ton of users). It can uncover trends, sentiments, and even unmet needs.
• Use AI to spark conversations. Coming up with content ideas every day is hard, but AI can help you generate prompts, questions, and topics that resonate with your members.
• Use AI to streamline onboarding. From automated welcome messages to helpful chatbots, AI can make sure new members feel supported from day one, just don’t forget to add a human touch at the end of the funnel.

The key is to use AI to support the person running the community - not replace the human touch. On the contrary, this should give the manager more time to really focus on deepening those connections. 

Real companies, real communities: What this looks like in action.

We’ve talked about how to build community, but what does it look like in real life?

Here are 3 community examples that continue to inspire me, and that might just spark some ideas for your own journey:

Women and Climate (WAC) 

A global space where women lead the climate conversation, connect across borders, and drive real business impact. Their Slack channel brings together over 4,500 members from around the world, offering a daily touchpoint for ideas, support, and collaboration. One standout feature is their speaker database, which helps connect climate experts with event organizers, ensuring fresh, diverse voices are heard on stages across the world.

Notion’s Community

Notion turned its users into its best teachers. Through events, videos, templates, and workshops, community members actively help others master the tool. The magic? It's all built by people who actually use Notion every day, making learning feel real, not rehearsed. Whether you're into productivity, design, or teaching, there's a space for you here.

Buffer Community

I couldn’t not include Buffer. Their community isn’t just for social media experts, it’s a co-creation hub. From feature suggestions to product feedback channels, users actively shape the platform’s evolution. Initiatives like Creator Camp support users in staying consistent, while casual check-ins foster genuine connection. It feels like a shared home where everyone can put a brick to build.

Let’s build what AI can’t, while letting it help where it can

In a world rapidly filling up with auto-generated everything, a real community becomes the most valuable thing you can build. Not just because it feels good (though it does), but because it gives you an advantage that’s hard to replicate: loyalty, trust, and belonging.

So while everyone else scrambles to scale with AI, take a moment to scale something different, something timeless.

Build community, because you have the power to make someone feel seen, trusted, and supported and that’s where the magic can still live.